You see, many, many years ago, my marriage went through a change. The sex became less frequent, and even when we did have sex, my wife was less than enthusiastic. Yea, yea, there will be those of you that may say I was a bad lover, but, I don't ever remember a time that my wife didn't have an orgasm - I always made sure to please her before I got my rocks off. I was that type of lover..unselfish..willing to please and even experiment. But, once we got married she never was - never willing, never pleasing, and never, ever experimental. Lay there like a lox..step 1, step 2, done. Oral? please..that went out on our wedding day.